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	<title>FIXEDEYES; John Clancy and Rachel Clancy &#187; Updates</title>
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		<title>Company Cheer</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2007/10/08/company-cheer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Oct 2007 13:14:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Four weeks full of people--- how blessed we are in our friends!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Comings and goings, community living, warmth and conversation with friends and family: so has been the past month at 5 Kerr Street.  My parents came for a three week visit on September 12th and on October 4th, the day after they left to fly back to Alberta, Canada, our dear friends who are from Wisconsin came for a five day visit.<br />
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When we lived in India, God gave us the gift of Dean and Jayne Gilge as our friends.  An American couple with children my age, they lived two blocks from our apartment in India and we spent many happy evenings together and took the hazardous Sunday drive through Hyderabadi traffic to church together.  On October 2, 2006 we left India and spent a week in Scotland before going back to the States for three months.  Dean and Jayne left India on October 2, 2007, exactly a year after us, to go back home to Ogema, Wisconsin.  They are spending the same days that we did in Paisley, Scotland&#8212; how ironic!  Though a whole year had passed since we&#8217;d seen them, it feels like we haven&#8217;t been apart for more than a week.  It&#8217;s strange to think that so much has passed in that &#8220;week&#8221;.:-)<br />
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So what have we been doing these past four weeks?  With my parents we ate a lot of chocolate-coated digestive biscuits, went to the vegetable store, celebrated October birthdays, explored the countryside and <a href="http://www.undiscoveredscotland.co.uk/doune/dounecastle/">Doune Castle</a>, looked at birds, and John and I got to go on a date every week.  With Dean and Jayne, we&#8217;ve eaten steak pies and fresh cream apple turnovers from Gregg&#8217;s, explored the <a href="http://www.undiscoveredscotland.co.uk/paisley/abbey/index.html">Paisley Abbey</a>, took an extremely crowded train to Edinburgh- mulling over the ancient cobbles, buildings, and museums, and drank a lot of tea.  Both my mum and Jayne have been wonderful dishwashers and everyone has been entirely delightful and a blessing to have.  How different life will be when all the company leaves.  Jayne and Dean leave for London tomorrow and then head home to their children and friends.<br />
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How beautiful life is with people who love one another, care for one another.  The little  inconveniences of having one&#8217;s own space pale in comparison with the joys.  We are thinking often of John&#8217;s family and how much we&#8217;d like to see them again, have them meet Kiera and enjoy Aria&#8212;not to mention seeing the many friends we have scattered about every where.  The life of a traveller has its consequences&#8212;some good, some bad.  But no matter where we&#8217;ve gone, God has blessed us with people who love us and who we grow to love, people we delight to know and open our homes to.  These relationships are things that will last beyond the trials, joys, tragedies, and triumphs of our brief sojourn on this earth.  How blessed we are in our friends!</p>
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		<title>Little shoplifter&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2007/09/14/little-shoplifter/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 11:40:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[...and other recent occurences.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My friend, Naomi, and I had just enjoyed a delicious cup of hot chocolate at the Aroma Room cafe and were leisurely walking back towards the town centre, both pushing our babies in strollers.  Aria was walking complacently along beside us as we chatted.  Suddenly, I had a funny feeling and looked about me for her.  I couldn&#8217;t see her.  Naomi did, however, and left her baby with me as she turned back to get her.  To my surprise, Aria was racing up the sidewalk away from us.  Upon closer observation, I noticed that she was clutching something white and furry to her.  She had snatched a stuffed toy dog from just inside the door of a shop and, knowing that I wouldn&#8217;t approve, had gone tearing off in the opposite direction.  The dog was returned to the shop owner with sheepish apologies and Aria was returned to me, crying many tears for her lost puppy.<br />
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Besides shoplifting, Aria&#8217;s been doing the usual two-year old thing.  She&#8217;s talking a lot.  Her latest phrase is, &#8220;I&#8217;m gonna get you!&#8221; said in a playful growly voice.  Toilet training is going okay though it does feel like I&#8217;m constanly washing little girl underwear!:-)  Everyone learns eventually, right?<br />
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Kiera enjoys eating, mostly at dinnertime and makes frantic noises all through her meal as if she were almost starving.  She looks a lot like Aria did at the same age, though her hair is a bit lighter.  Aria was looking at her own baby record book with John and John would say, &#8220;Look, there&#8217;s Aria as a baby.&#8221;  Aria would respond in a knowing voice, &#8220;Nooo, Kiera.&#8221;  She was convinced the baby in the pictures was her little sister.<br />
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John was away Monday through Wednesday (near Manchester) this week and will be again next week.  He&#8217;s doing training for his new part time job, CAPs (Christians Against Poverty).  It&#8217;s exciting, but a busy time and it&#8217;s hard to have him away.  He is still working part-time at Let-It (a house renting agency) as well.<br />
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My parents came on Wednesday and will be staying with us for three weeks.  It&#8217;s great for them to see Aria again and for my dad to meet Kiera for the first time.  They&#8217;re getting spoiled as grandkids do!:-)  I&#8217;m able to write this post because they&#8217;re watching the girls for me right now.  But the time has come for me to run off once more.  I just wanted to do a little catch-up.  Hopefully a few more posts will get written in the three weeks where I have such willing sitters.;-)</p>
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		<title>busy, busy, busy&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2007/04/03/busy-busy-busy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2007 21:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[John's Reflections]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Working now and feeling quite busy... here's a quick update about the new job.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I&#8217;m working now!  I have been for the last couple of weeks, but as you may have gathered from the title, I&#8217;ve been just a bit busy.  Part of that busyness has been a result of the kids being sick with the same cold that I&#8217;ve been fighting off.  For a few days last week, I couldn&#8217;t set the tissues and handkerchiefs down.  I would blow Aria&#8217;s nose, then my own, and back to her.<br />
Anyway, we&#8217;re on the tail end of that now!  Thank God.  And, I am now a little more settled in to my new job. So, what am I doing?  Well, I am filling an admin role in a letting agency.  For you Americans, that means an apartment rental agency.  It is never a dull job, with all kinds of people calling up, to get us to help them with their living arrangement problems and repairs and stuff like that.  These people seem to be upset quite a bit, and I rather enjoy the difficulty of it most of the time.  And, besides working with the people, I am also very much enjoying the fact that I&#8217;m learning about how properties work and about how the whole business goes.  It&#8217;s quite neat.  Makes me want to buy a house too, but&#8230;. it&#8217;ll be a while.<br />
So, yeah, I figured I had better send a quick update to at least let people know that I was working, and that things were good.  Please continue to pray for us.  I&#8217;ll write again soon.  I have a little monologue thing that I wrote for communion at church that I&#8217;d like to put up some time, so I&#8217;ll try and do that relatively soon.  Well, till then!  God bless!</p>
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		<title>Working&#8230;. Naw!</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2007/03/15/working-naw/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2007 17:24:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A little update about where I'm at on the occupational front.  It's been a bit of a battle so far.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems to have been quite a while since I have written a post.  But, as they say here, &#8220;Nai Baddah!&#8221;  Translation: &#8220;no bother!&#8221;  Meaning: I&#8217;m not going to worry about it.  Rather, I&#8217;ll just share with you a bit about what&#8217;s been going on, and then try and write a little bit more often in the days to come.<br />
<a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/briefcase1.JPG" title=""><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-briefcase1.JPG" width="260" height="173"  alt="" /></a><strong>Work-</strong><br />
First let me get you caught up in this department.  Before Kiera was born, I was offered three jobs on one day.  It was the fruit from a couple weeks of intense job-searching, and they were all pretty good.  One was with an apartment rental agency, another was a high-paying telesales job, and the third was a position with Royal Bank of Scotland (RBS).  Well, the RBS one was the most interesting because I had applied for a normal banking position, but the interviewers called me back to say that they thought I would be better suited to go for a team-leader/manager role.  I was shocked, flattered, and encouraged.  And, the fact that the pay was handsome, was quite nice too!<br />
So, I turned down the other jobs, and went out for the RBS position, even though it meant waiting another 3 weeks to attend an assessment course.  Well, bottom line:  just found out that the wait was in vain.  I didn&#8217;t get the job.  They did offer me the position that I originally applied for, but it wouldn&#8217;t start for another <em>6 weeks</em>.  sigh&#8230;<br />
 But you know what? This really was God&#8217;s doing.  The truth is, that I was needed at home during this time.   Making the jump from one kid to two, and the transition from one home to another, and one culture to another was really quite a bit to handle all at once.  It really seems that God wanted me home during this time.<br />
After all, it says in the scriptures that if a person can not take care of his own family, then, he should not be considered fit to be a minister of the gospel.  Unfortunately, if God would have just told me outright not to work for the last 8 weeks of my life, I don&#8217;t think I would have just said, &#8220;Ok!&#8221; to that.  But, as it was, I was doing everything in my power to try and follow God&#8217;s will for me and take the job that I thought He wanted me to have, and it just didn&#8217;t pan out.<br />
But you know what&#8230; It&#8217;s ok!  In fact, it&#8217;s better than ok.  I am really glad I&#8217;ve been able to be home for this tough transition.  And, better yet, I know that there is a job out there that will yield more fruit for the Kingdom than that other job.  I know that, because I really do desire that, and it&#8217;s a desire that pleases God.  So, I&#8217;m confident that the right job will be coming along soon.  There are definitely some prospectives right now, and I&#8217;m actually expecting an answer back from someone very soon.<br />
Nevertheless, right now I am just working on letting Jesus live His life through me today.  You know?  It sometimes feels like I&#8217;m in between two places right now, because I&#8217;m not working.  It&#8217;s like I&#8217;m not here, but I&#8217;m not there either. It&#8217;s because one&#8217;s occupation is so closely linked to a man&#8217;s identity.  It&#8217;s no major revelation that if a man makes his living helping people recover from their ailments, that he says he <em>is</em> a doctor.  And, if he works on cars, he <em>is</em> a mechanic, and so on and so forth.. But, going on like that causes quite an identity crisis when a man is then unemployed for a spell, doesn&#8217;t it?   What <em>is</em> he then?<br />
But thankfully, I have an identity apart from my occupation&#8230; and it&#8217;s based on many factors: being made in God&#8217;s image;  being a father, husband, son, brother, and minister of reconciliation to a hurting world.  <em>These</em> are the true things that make up who I am and where I am.  And I know that I&#8217;m not in between two places, or two identities.  And I know that God just wants me to be faithful where I am now.  It&#8217;s really important.<br />
<a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/PICT0097.JPG" title=""><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-PICT0097.JPG" width="133" height="200" align="right" alt="" /></a>What does that look like now?  It may mean picking up around the house, helping with the kids, doing dinner or the dishes, buying flowers, being around the church; it also might mean spending time focused on reading the scriptures and in prayer.  Yeah, they seem like little things but if that is what I&#8217;ve been called to do, then being faithful to do them is a wonderful thing.  And, God says that he who is faithful in the little things will be entrusted with more.<br />
So, I&#8217;ll keep you posted about the job thing.  In the mean time, keep praying for us, that God would have His way!  Blessings!  John</p>
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		<title>Kiera Jean is Born!!!!</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2007/02/10/kiera-jean-is-born/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Feb 2007 22:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The new Clancy Baby is here.. Safe and sound.. Read all about it here.]]></description>
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<h3>To go straight to the pics, click here</h3>
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Well, for those of you who have been checking the site every day to see if the new baby has arrived, you can consider your quest concluded because Kiera Jean Clancy breathed her first lung-ful of  fine Scotish air.  Yup, Kiera Jean is the name.  Kiera is pronounced like Key- Air- ah.  However, the Scots seem to say it a little more like Keera, which I seem to favor.  So, that&#8217;s the first name, and the middle name is Jean, after my Grandma&#8230; And, for all those who know my Grandma, Yes!  She cried.  (Sorry I told everyone Grandma, but I doubt anyone&#8217;s too surprised.)<a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/PICT0072Medium.JPG" title=""><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-PICT0072Medium.JPG" width="133" height="200" alt="" /></a><br />
Anyway, it was a very quick labor, four hours or so.  Rachel had been having contractions (I keep wanting to call them contraptions) for the last couple of days, but they weren&#8217;t consistent until late this morning.  We figured we still had time, so we had lunch.  Well, after the food and a brief rest, they were really coming on strong.  By the time we got to the hospital, she had had more contraptions than Thomas Edison.  Seriously, they were coming every three minutes, and hard.  The first bed they put her in was really tiny, and her feet hung off the edge.  But, we were both really excited.
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This is the little bed that Rachel was on when we first got there.  I thought it was cute the way her feet hung from the bed.
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<p>Most of that excitement had turned to pure focus by the time that we arrived on the labor ward, a floor up.  While the nurses rushed around to get everything prepared, the moans that had previously accompanied each contraction had turned to screams.  And, I even think that I heard a growl or two in there.  And, then when Rachel shouted at the top of her lungs, amidst her prayers to Jesus, &#8221; I CAN&#8217;T DO THIS!&#8221;  The busy nurses, paused for a second as they looked at each other, as if to say with their eyes, &#8220;Ok, she&#8217;s ready.&#8221;<br />
Sure enough, after only being in that room for 30 mins or so, Rache gave a few pushes and&#8230; voila, the first Scotish Clancy&#8230; was born.  It was pretty sweet.
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	<a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/PICT0139Medium.JPG" title=""><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-PICT0139Medium.JPG" width="200" height="133" alt="" /></a>Look at the baby&#8217;s cute lil&#8217; feet! Awwww.
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<p>For those who like the stats, the baby was 8Lbs 3 oz, and born on Feb 10, 2007 at around 4:30 pm (Uk time).  Quite a bit smaller than Aria, who weighed in at 9 lbs 11 oz.  But, what she lacked in size, she made up for in cuteness.  The pics don&#8217;t do her justice, but we thought we&#8217;d throw some up there for everyone anyway.  We&#8217;ll keep you posted on how things are going.  Rachel will be in the hospital for a couple of days, but nothing to worry about, everyone&#8217;s fine.</p>
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	<a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/PICT0125Medium.JPG" title=""><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-PICT0125Medium.JPG" width="400" height="266" alt="" /></a>Here, Aria is reacting with a mixure of joy and concern.  Joy that she&#8217;s with this baby, but concern that Kiera&#8217;s crying.  Watching the two of them was adorable.  Oh, and for anyone worried about the baby catching chick pox from Aria.  Baby&#8217;s got mom&#8217;s immunity for 6 mos according to doc.
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<p>Oh, I forgot to mention Aria&#8217;s reaction to her new baby sister.  Well, I was a little worried about the whole jealousy issue.  I mean, I figured when Aria saw her mother with another little baby cuddled in those arms, that she would just try and crawl over the &#8216;intruder&#8217; to get to mommy right?  Her reaction couldn&#8217;t have been farther from that.  She was just instantly in love.  &#8220;Baby!&#8221; She cried while pointing to the baby, and then instantly started making the &#8220;give-me-that&#8221; noises while holding her arms out to the baby.  I took her in my lap and helped Aria to hold her, and Aria was just in her glory.  She just started kissing the baby&#8217;s head very gently while making her distinctive &#8220;MMMMWAA&#8221; kissing sounds.  It was very adorable.<br />
Check out the pictures.  You can click on any of the pictures in this post to view the full size image.  But, there are <a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/photos/index.php">more pics</a><br />
up on the gallery too, so check those out as well.  More coming.<br />
Blessings,<br />
Feel free to leave questions if I forgot to mention anything in the comments.</p>
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		<title>Adjustments</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2007/01/18/adjustments/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2007 21:21:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A wee update on my new world and experiences in a culture that throws me for a turn, frustrates me, and has me laughing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Things are always a little different in a foreign country&#8230; even one where they speak English (well, sort of) as their first language.  I inevitabley have to ask people to repeat what they said because I don&#8217;t understand them.<br />
We have now moved into the new flat&#8230; three bedrooms.  Well, after the size of our bedrooms for the past two years, it&#8217;s kind of hard to think of these as bedrooms (the wee room in San Francisco where we slept in a loft bed being the one exception).  Our bedroom is mainly a space for our &#8220;double&#8221; bed.  I say &#8220;double&#8221; in a very broad sense as it&#8217;s really only a foot wider than a regular single bed.  Guess I&#8217;d better hurry up and have this baby so that my belly will take up less room!  Two very narrow &#8220;dressers&#8221; sqeeze up on either side between the bed and the lovely lavender-coloured walls.  A small wardrobe takes up the one free corner.  I guess the new baby&#8217;s only option will be our big suitcase at the end of the bed!;-)  When I think of my bedroom, I think, &#8220;I could fit you in my pocket!&#8221;  Well, almost.  Aria&#8217;s room is the same size, but arranged slightly differently as we had to squeeze her crib, or &#8220;cot&#8221; as they call them, in the room along with the double bed.  Maybe I should mention that this is a furnished apartment that we are living in: many advantages, a few disadvantages.  But Aria loves her crib and seems quite pleased with her new room.<br />
Space is something that confuses me.  I didn&#8217;t think we had much stuff until we moved into this flat.  It&#8217;s not that Jessica and Nathaniel have loads of stuff themselves.  And we really don&#8217;t either considering we seem to always move by car or plane.  Storage just doesn&#8217;t seem to be a consideration in this part of the world.  After all, who would think that under a bed is a bad place to store stuff?  Well, our beds (and I was told that this is typical here) come within an inch of the floor.  One couldn&#8217;t even store a school binder under them!  So I have had to let my creative juices flow to the max in order to find a place for everything.  The top of the wardrobes are utilized to the utmost and under Aria&#8217;s crib is a perfect place to keep our shoes.  The wide windowsills seemed ideal to keep our books on until John noticed that the moisture from the windows was getting them wet.  Oh stink!  They now occupy the narrow space of floor between the wardrobe and the door.<br />
One lovely surprise was the discovery that our washer was actually a washer/dryer combo.  With the space issue, I&#8217;d been almost beside myself trying to think of places to hang wet laundry and had visions of cloth diapers endlessly draped across every piece of furniture as they would constantly be drying.  The discovery of our little gem (the washer/dryer) gave much elation to my spirit.  True, a full load here is more like a smaller-sized medium load in the States, and one can only dry a half load at a time: to wash and dry a complete load of laundry takes aproximately four hours; however, this is a small thing in light of what could have been and I am ever so grateful.<br />
I have now been to see a nurse or midwife or doctor a total of four times.  My first appointment, which was to register under National Health (medicine is socialized here) and see a nurse, was the day after we arrived.  Every two days for the next week I had an appointment with someone or other about something or other.  So now I&#8217;m set.  No appointment for two weeks, but I&#8217;m in the system and know where to go when I hit labour.  Woohoo!  I had my third ultrasound on Tuesday (the first two were in the States)&#8212;overkill if you ask me, but I have no complaints in admiring the shadowy form of my baby on screen.  Aria hates the ultrasounds though.  Many tears are shed on her part as she sees her mummy lying down with a weird instrument sliding across her belly.  This time, a kind nurse came in and distracted her while we surveyed the baby&#8212;already approximately seven and a half pounds.  How does this happen to me?!?<br />
Guess that&#8217;s the latest on my life.  I&#8217;m enjoying the wonderful accessibility of the town centre and even at my slower pace, I can make it there walking in twenty minutes or less.  I also have figured out how to use the local bus, though the first time I tried to use it, I felt like I was chasing it around the neighbourhood before I finally missed it and settled for the next one ten minutes later!</p>
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		<title>Blustery!</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2007/01/12/blustery/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2007 16:39:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, it&#8217;s blustery as can be here.  I&#8217;m not even exactly sure what that word means, but if it has something to do with walls of wind, standing you up straight and trying to push you around, well then it fits what&#8217;s going on around here.<br />
I&#8217;ve been out walking around quite a bit since we&#8217;ve arrived.  Partly to just get out of the house, and partly with the hopes of shedding some of those unwanted &#8220;holiday&#8221; pounds.  Honestly, I don&#8217;t think I can blame it <em>all</em> on the holidays, but I don&#8217;t think they mind playing the scapegoat anyway.   So, Rache and I have been bundling up Aria in her pink snowpants, mittens and full winter garb, and heading out into the elements.  There&#8217;s no snow, and it&#8217;s really not <em> that</em> cold!  Just super windy.<br />
But, I gotta tell you, it doesn&#8217;t seem to affect the Scots here.  The hospitality that we&#8217;ve experienced is pretty cool.  I&#8217;m really amazed at how much Scots seem to love to chat with us.  When they hear that we have an accent from out of town, they usually just want to chat about whatever.  And I&#8217;m really amazed at how many of them have traveled abroad, or to the US.  It&#8217;s crazy, how many blue-collar workers travel.  It seems that flights are very reasonable from here, and the Pound is pretty heavy when compared to other nations&#8217; economies so&#8230; it works out I guess.<br />
So, I just wanted to give a quick update to let you all know that things are going well.  I&#8217;ve looked at some job stuff in the papers, but I am not planning on contacting anyone until Monday.  That should give me some time to get used to waking up on UK time.  It&#8217;s not easy right now.  Rachel seems to be having no problem.  She goes to bed at 10 and wakes up at 8 or something.  Aria and I, on the other hand, can&#8217;t seem to get ourselves able to sleep at the approrpriate times.  Aria is definitely more cranky because of it.  I, however, am never cranky!  Just  ask Rachel.<br />
Blessings!<br />
John</p>
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		<title>Indian Traffic</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Oct 2006 00:42:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all, this is really not deep or important but, I came across this video that gives you a good idea about what Indian traffic is like.  I already miss India.   <img src='http://www.fixedeyes.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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		<title>Travelling Adventures</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2006/10/12/travelling-adventures/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Oct 2006 21:40:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A little glimpse into our past couple o' weeks as we travel here, there, and everywhere.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Packing seems to be my current life calling.  I&#8217;ve been packing, unpacking, and repacking for the past month and I&#8217;m glad to finally be seeing the light at the end of the tunnel&#8211;at least for the next three months.  We are currently at John&#8217;s sister&#8217;s place in New Jersey after arriving in the States Tuesday night and on Saturday we&#8217;ll be settling into our friend&#8217;s place in Syracuse until we move to Scotland in January.</p>
<div class="bitImage bitLeft" style="width: 205px; clear: left;"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-JRtrip067Small.jpg" width="200" height="133" alt="jet plane" />&#8220;Leaving on a jet plane&#8230;&#8221;</div>
<p>Our travels were far from smooth, but God gave us grace and favour as we needed it in turn.  We left India on October 2nd, taking an Indian Airlines flight to Mumbai (Bombay) and then transfering to British Airlines from Mumbai to London, London to Glasgow.  I&#8217;d heard many poor reports on Indian Airlines&#8217; reliability, but kept my fingers crossed as our layover in Mumbai was four hours long.  The reports didn&#8217;t lie and I found myself caught in what seemed to be a bad dream.  After a delay of over an hour we were finally settling into our seats on our flight when we were informed by the captain that we would have to wait while the grounds crew checked out a &#8220;minor technical difficulty&#8221;.  Ten minutes later we were told that the &#8220;minor&#8221; problem now had the plane grounded and that we would have to wait in the departure area for an hour  until another plane could take us to Mumbai and that yes, we would miss our connecting flight.  I was beside myself and couldn&#8217;t look at anyone for all the tears crowding my eyes.  However, God gave me the grace and peace I needed and I was prepared to wait the eleven to twelve hours in Mumbai airport until the next flight to London.  We were not the only ones on that connecting flight to London and a large group of men had gathered around the airport manager, yelling at her and verbally abusing her for something she had no control over; such a outburst would have been quickly quelled in the Western world.</p>
<div class="bitImage bitRight" style="width: 205px; clear: right;"><a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/JRtrip233Small.jpg" title="enrapt"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-JRtrip233Small.jpg" width="200" height="133" alt="enrapt" /></a>Aria is delighted and surprised at the strangeness of plane travel.</div>
<p>We finally boarded a plane and were now over three hours past the original time that we had been meant to leave.  Because I had been able to accept the delay, the flight was much less stressful and I was able to enjoy Aria&#8217;s surprise and delight of the ground growing swiftly farther away below us as we took off.  She bounced from one small oval window to another, occasionally taking a quick break to slurp some juice through the straw of her juice box.  When we landed we were informed that just maybe we would be able to make our flight to London, but we&#8217;d have to hurry as we had to pick up all our luggage and get from the domestic airport to the international one, which just happened to be in a different part of the city.  As John called British Airways to let them know we were going to try to make it, I grabbed a cart and Aria to get our luggage.  Ours was among the first to show itself and I quickly piled our bags on the cart, setting Aria on top, and then raced across the room to where John was.  We hurried outside, found a taxi, and were soon heading out through the streets of Mumbai in a small yellow cab, our bags piled around us.  The pollution in the air seemed much worse than Hyderabad and the humidity caused by Mumbai&#8217;s close proximity to the Arabian Sea had us sweating by the time we reached the airport.  We gave our driver a good tip, then hurried up to the check-in desk.  Only when we were assured that we&#8217;d make the flight did we feel like we could really breathe again.  Out of the many people from our first flight who had the same connecting flight to London as us, we were the only ones who took the chance that  we&#8217;d make the flight&#8211;and we did!  I felt like God honoured our good attitudes toward the air crew whereas many of our fellow passengers took their anger out on whoever they could.<br />
But, this wasn&#8217;t our last problem of the day.  The next issue turned out to be our luggage.  After all the time and effort I&#8217;d put into meticulously checking and rechecking the weight of our bags (I used a post mail scale that was extremely accurate), measuring our bags, and checking for any changes regarding baggage allowance on the British Airways website everyday, we were told that we had one too many bags by the man at the desk.  We argued and pleaded with him, but he wouldn&#8217;t budge.  Our choice came down to repacking our bags and leaving 18 kilos of our stuff on the sidewalk outside, or paying three hundred dollars for the carry-on in question.  Thankfully, a manager came out and finally had mercy on us, checking the bag for free.  God is gracious.  You must realize that our luggage allowance in leaving India was <em>one-third</em> the amount that we had been able to take with us.  Losing 18 kilos would have been a big deal!</p>
<div class="bitImage bitLeft" style="width: 137px; clear: left;"><a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/JRtrip354Small.jpg" title="jet lag"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-JRtrip354Small.jpg" width="132" height="200" alt="jet lag" /></a>The best way to recover from jet lag.</div>
<p>After having been up for twenty-three hours, all but one of those hours spent travelling or in airports, we finally arrived in Glasgow and were happy to fall into bed in my sister and her husband&#8217;s apartment.  We spent a lovely, relaxing week with them, getting a bit acquainted with the area, celebrating my brother-in-law&#8217;s birthday (he&#8217;s only six days older than me), baking, eating beef, visiting Glasgow and Edinburgh, and getting to know and interact with some of the people of the church there.  The weather, being cool, was definitely a shock to our systems, but it felt good to once again don a jacket.</p>
<div class="bitImage bitRight" style="width: 205px; clear: right;"><a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/JRtrip246Small.jpg" title="Clancys in Iceland"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-JRtrip246Small.jpg" width="200" height="133" alt="Clancys in Iceland" /></a>John, Rachel, and Aria outside the Blue Lagoon in Iceland, surrounded by black lava rock.</div>
<p>We flew out from Scotland on Tuesday and greatly enjoyed our three and a half hour layover in Iceland, where we took a shuttle to the Blue Lagoon and enjoyed a warm soak in the natural hotsprings that are fifteen minutes from the airport, compliments of Iceland Air!  Aria has now visited five countries in her short life.  It was nice to arrive in the States and see John&#8217;s sister&#8217;s smiling face at the end of immigration and customs lines, waiting to welcome us.  We&#8217;ve been enjoying our short visit in New Jersey and I celebrated my birthday here yesterday, but it will be nice to unpack those bags.<br />
No more major packing for me, thank you very much!  At least for three more months.;-)</p>
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		<title>Social Life @ One</title>
		<link>http://www.fixedeyes.com/archives/2006/09/13/social-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Sep 2006 07:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Aria explores the delight of human interaction, both with adults and babies.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="bitImage bitRight" style="width: 205px; clear: right;"><a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/m51315978.jpg" title="Aria and Indian boy"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-m51315978.jpg" width="200" height="150" alt="Aria and Indian boy" /></a>Aria meets a little Indian boy at our favourite coffeeshop, Barista Crème.</div>
<p>I guess it would be safe to say that Aria’s babyhood so far has been far from normal: dorm living as a newborn, moving cross-country, flying half-way across the world, experiencing three continents, and living more than half her life in India.  Her life is far from mundane and we are about to add two more countries to the three she’s already experienced—Scotland and Iceland (we’ll spend a few hours outside the Iceland airport during our layover on the way to NY at a natural hot springs).</p>
<div class="bitImage bitLeft" style="width: 137px; clear: left;"><a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/m52264124.jpg" title="black and white"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-m52264124.jpg" width="133" height="200" alt="black and white" /></a>Aria&#8217;s skin greatly contrasts with one of the workers at the campus where Jayne and Dean live. (<em>photo compliments of Jayne Gilge</em>)</div>
<p>Because of her very fair skin, she can’t help but be noticed amongst the little brown babies here in India.  She’s gone through stages of liking the attention and shying away from it.  Lately, she’s greatly enjoyed it and can’t stop waving to everyone we pass as we make our treks to the grocery store, vegetable stand, and post office.<br />
One thing I greatly miss here is a church nursery.  Aria’s interaction with other babies on Sundays is very limited as we try to keep her relatively well-behaved through the hot church service.  From where she sits, she sees all the young children walking around and would love no more than to be able to get up and follow them, even if it means crawling around on the loose gravel.  I’m discovering how much of a joy it will be to have a nursery at my disposal so I can actually BE in church when I’m there!<br />
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<div class="bitImage bitRight" style="width: 205px; clear: right;"><a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/PICT0021_01.jpg" title="Aria and Tejasv"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-PICT0021_01.jpg" width="200" height="133" alt="Aria and Tejasv" /></a>Aria pushing Tejasv around in his ducky walker.</div>
<p>Recently she has had the joy of spending time with babies around her age.  She is frequently able to visit the little boy who lives across the hall from us—Tejasv.  He is almost two months younger than her, but when it involves his ducky walker, they play remarkably well together.  Aria likes it when Tejasv is in the walker and she can push him around in it.  Since both our front doors are at the end of the hallway we are able to block off the rest of the hallway and the stairs with our cane chairs and let them play in the neighbour’s house, in our house, and
<div class="bitImage bitLeft" style="width: 205px; clear: left;"><a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/PICT0014.JPG" title="Manisha and Aria"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-PICT0014.JPG" width="200" height="133" alt="Manisha and Aria" /></a>Manisha shows her affection by giving Aria a big kiss&#8211;one of the moments when they&#8217;re getting along!:-)</div>
<p>at the end of the corridor.  Aria is sometimes very stubborn about leaving them and usually wails when I take her home, or when we need to go out.  You’d think I beat her!;-)<br />
Another friend of hers who she sees less often is Manisha, John’s supervisor’s daughter.  She is a month and a half younger than Aria, but when it comes to walking, is way past her.  Perhaps if Aria spent more time with her, it would rub off, but Aria is not to be pushed.  The two babies make a lot of sweet little girl noises together and fight over each other’s sippy cups.<br />
Aria also enjoys being around adults.  She loves to go to Jayne’s
<div class="bitImage bitRight" style="width: 205px; clear:right;"><a href="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/PICT0330.JPG" title="Jayne and Aria"><img src="http://www.fixedeyes.com/uploads/thumb-PICT0330.JPG" width="200" height="133" alt="Jayne and Aria" /></a>Lovely Jayne spending time with Aria in the beautiful outdoors.</div>
<p>house and play with plastic spoons and eat fruity yogurt.  It took a little longer for her to warm up to Dean, but now she loves to sit in his lap as they listen to music together.  She has her own special chair and spoon at their house and loves to crawl up their stairs, laughing mischievously when she is discovered!  </p>
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